Dance Queen and mum-of-two, Kafayat Oluwatoyin
Shafau popularly known as Kaffy, has given more insights on her cr@shed
marriage to her younger husband and drummer boy, Papi J Ameh.
Recall that in January 2022, the 42-year-old dancer made
an announcement on Instagram, that her
union with Joseph Ameh, a music director and drummer, is over.
Now, in a recent interview with media personality, Chude
Jideonwo, Kaffy revealed that her husband slept with some of her close pals.
“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought
he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my
best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found
someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human
being should be your source of happiness.
When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly because he is always calm, and he has
now made me afraid of calm people because hmm, inside he is. I held him in high
regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked
him, what do you have against me that is making you sleep around and with my
best friends.”
Speaking about how she moved on, Kaffy said, “I
stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I
stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started”